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Khi b&#7841;n tham gia m&#7897;t bu&#7893;i talkshow, workshop, hay b&#7845;t k&igrave; ch&#432;&#417;ng tr&igrave;nh n&agrave;o c&oacute; t&iacute;nh &#273;&#7883;nh h&#432;&#7899;ng cho m&#7897;t s&#7921; thay &#273;&#7893;i t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c, trong ph&#7847;n Q&amp;A, b&#7841;n s&#7869; th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nghe c&acirc;u h&#7887;i &ldquo;l&agrave;m th&#7871; n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; thay &#273;&#7893;i&rdquo;. V&agrave; th&#432;&#7901;ng th&igrave; c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i c&#7911;a di&#7877;n gi&#7843; kh&oacute; m&agrave; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t h&#432;&#7899;ng &#273;i x&aacute;c &#273;&aacute;ng, b&#7903;i l&#7869; m&#7895;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n qu&aacute; kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t &#273;&#7875; c&oacute; th&#7875; c&ugrave;ng th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng th&#7913;c bi&#7871;n &#273;&#7893;i.&nbsp;<ol><li>&#272;i&#7875;m t&#7921;a ch&#432;a &#273;&#7911; ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n</li></ol>B&#7845;t k&igrave; qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh n&agrave;o c&#361;ng c&#7847;n m&#7897;t &#273;i&#7875;m t&#7921;a, &#273;&#7875; trong giai &#273;o&#7841;n ch&aacute;n n&#7843;n nh&#7845;t ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; nh&#7899; &#273;&#7871;n l&iacute; do ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u. Nh&#7919;ng h&igrave;nh m&#7851;u hi&#7879;n nay &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7873; ra b&#7903;i t&iacute;nh ch&#7845;t c&ocirc;ng nghi&#7879;p c&#7911;a n&#7873;n v&#259;n minh s&#7917; d&#7909;ng th&agrave;nh t&#7921;u &#273;&#7875; &#273;o &#273;&#7841;c s&#7921; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a m&#7897;t c&aacute; nh&acirc;n. Ti&ecirc;u chu&#7849;n &#273;&#432;a ra c&oacute; th&#7875; kh&aacute;c nhau trong t&#7915;ng l&#297;nh v&#7921;c nh&#432;ng chung quy v&#7851;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t m&ocirc; h&igrave;nh r&#7845;t chung v&#7873; vi&#7879;c c&oacute; th&agrave;nh t&iacute;ch cao trong h&#7885;c t&#7853;p, ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng ngo&#7841;i kh&oacute;a s&ocirc;i n&#7893;i, v&agrave; &#273;i tr&#432;&#7899;c r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u so v&#7899;i l&#7897; tr&igrave;nh h&#7885;c v&#7845;n. Nh&#7919;ng y&ecirc;u c&#7847;u n&agrave;y c&oacute; th&#7875; &aacute;p d&#7909;ng t&#432;&#417;ng t&#7921; c&#7843; trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c.&nbsp;M&ocirc; h&igrave;nh n&agrave;y khi&#7871;n cho c&aacute; nh&acirc;n kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; th&#7921;c hi&#7879;n m&#7897;t qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh d&agrave;i h&#7841;n. C&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7853;t s&#7921; mong mu&#7889;n nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute;, c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7841;n ch&#7881; &#273;ang c&#7889; g&#7855;ng &#273;&#432;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave;o m&#7897;t v&ugrave;ng an to&agrave;n. &#272;i&#7875;m t&#7921;a c&#7911;a qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh "tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n t&#7889;t h&#417;n" tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh k&#7923; v&#7885;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i - m&#7897;t y&#7871;u t&#7889; lu&ocirc;n lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; th&#7875; thay &#273;&#7893;i, thay v&igrave; m&#7897;t s&#7921; ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n l&agrave; mong mu&#7889;n c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. V&#7853;y qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; do ch&iacute;nh b&#7841;n l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n, nh&#432;ng b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7849;m quy&#7873;n ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t n&oacute; hay kh&ocirc;ng?&nbsp;2. &nbsp;&Aacute;p d&#7909;ng c&#7913;ng nh&#7855;cC&oacute; m&#7897;t th&#7901;i k&igrave; ng&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng nghi&#7879;p self-help tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t c&#417;n s&#7889;t &#273;&#7855;t gi&aacute; ngang ng&#7917;a c&#417;n s&#7889;t v&agrave;ng California. R&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ngh&#297; r&#7857;ng theo &#273;u&#7893;i nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; khi&#7871;n h&#7885; tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh m&#7897;t b&#7843;n sao, hay ch&iacute; &iacute;t l&agrave; c&oacute; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nhi&#7873;u ph&#7847;n nh&#432; h&igrave;nh m&#7851;u h&#7885; theo &#273;u&#7893;i. &#272;&acirc;u &#273;&oacute; ch&uacute;ng ta c&#361;ng t&#7915;ng &#7903; trong s&#7889; &#273;&oacute;. Ch&uacute;ng ta t&#7915;ng tin t&#432;&#7903;ng v&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta th&#7845;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c minh ch&#7913;ng &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng c&#7911;a quy tr&igrave;nh &#273;&oacute; b&#7857;ng cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng c&#7911;a nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;a ra l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n. Ch&uacute;ng ta qu&ecirc;n m&#7845;t r&#7857;ng m&#7895;i c&aacute; nh&acirc;n c&oacute; m&#7897;t m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng s&#7889;ng v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ti&#7873;m l&#7921;c ri&ecirc;ng bi&#7879;t. Vi&#7879;c theo &#273;u&#7893;i quy tr&igrave;nh c&#7911;a ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c b&#7857;ng nh&#7919;ng th&#7871; m&#7841;nh c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n t&#7841;o ra m&#7897;t qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh &aacute;p d&#7909;ng kh&#7853;p khi&#7877;ng kh&ocirc;ng m&#7845;y hi&#7879;u qu&#7843;. Nh&#7919;ng &#432;u &#273;i&#7875;m kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &#273;&#7863;t v&agrave;o &#273;&uacute;ng ch&#7895;, nh&#7919;ng khuy&#7871;t &#273;i&#7875;m gia t&#259;ng, m&#7885;i y&#7871;u t&#7889; l&#7847;n l&#432;&#7907;t xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n khi&#7871;n cho b&#7841;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng th&#7875; th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng nh&#432; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c.&nbsp;Kh&ocirc;ng ch&#7881; &#273;i theo c&#417;n s&#7889;t self help, &#273;&ocirc;i khi ch&uacute;ng ta c&ograve;n t&iacute;ch c&oacute;p nh&#7919;ng quy tr&igrave;nh t&#7915; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i xung quanh. Vi&#7879;c h&#7885;c h&#7887;i kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; x&#7845;u, h&#7885;c h&#7887;i c&#7913;ng nh&#7855;c m&#7899;i l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u tai h&#7841;i. &Aacute;p d&#7909;ng ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n m&#7897;t quy tr&igrave;nh v&igrave; ni&#7873;m tin &#273;&atilde; n&#7855;m trong tay quy&#7873;n ki&#7875;m so&aacute;t t&#7915;ng giai &#273;o&#7841;n ph&iacute;a tr&#432;&#7899;c. T&#7845;t nhi&ecirc;n, ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7907; c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c m&#7855;c ph&#7843;i sai l&#7847;m v&agrave; t&#7921; ch&#7883;u tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&igrave; &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;a ra quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&oacute;. Nh&#432;ng &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; m&#7899;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7875; th&#7917; th&aacute;ch, s&agrave;ng l&#7885;c, v&agrave; th&iacute;ch &#7913;ng.&nbsp;---M&#7895;i ng&#432;&#7901;i &#273;&#7873;u c&oacute; m&#7897;t ti&#7873;m l&#7921;c ri&ecirc;ng bi&#7879;t, h&atilde;y t&#7921; h&agrave;o t&#7841;o ra m&#7897;t h&igrave;nh m&#7851;u c&oacute; t&iacute;nh c&aacute; nh&acirc;n h&oacute;a th&#7853;t cao. Ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7841;n m&#7899;i l&agrave; &#273;i&#7873;u b&#7841;n n&ecirc;n theo &#273;u&#7893;i. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;

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