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<html><body>Peer pressure &ndash; Li&#7879;u c&oacute; ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c?Peer pressure - &Aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a l&agrave; m&#7897;t h&#7897;i ch&#7913;ng t&acirc;m l&yacute; kh&ocirc;ng h&#7873; xa l&#7841; m&agrave; h&#7847;u h&#7871;t ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u m&#7855;c ph&#7843;i &#273;&ocirc;i l&#7847;n, gi&#7889;ng nh&#432; &ldquo;ch&#7841;y tr&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng kh&#7887;i n&#7855;ng&rdquo; v&#7853;y. C&oacute; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n lo&#7841;i &aacute;p l&#7921;c n&agrave;y nh&#432;ng c&#7889;t l&otilde;i c&oacute; l&#7869; b&#7855;t ngu&#7891;n t&#7915; s&#7921; so s&aacute;nh v&agrave; t&acirc;m l&yacute; &aacute;m &#7843;nh ngang b&#7857;ng. A c&oacute; &#273;i&#7875;m s&#7889; cao v&uacute;t c&ograve;n b&#7841;n th&igrave; k, B &#273;&atilde; &#273;i th&#7921;c t&#7853;p &#7903; c&ocirc;ng ty xyz c&ograve;n b&#7841;n th&igrave; ch&#432;a, C v&ocirc; &#273;&#7883;ch cu&#7897;c thi n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; trong khi b&#7841;n ch&#7881; &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n v&ograve;ng 2, &hellip; S&#7921; so s&aacute;nh c&#7889; ch&#7845;p v&agrave; l&acirc;u d&agrave;i c&oacute; th&#7875; d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n t&acirc;m l&yacute; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c v&agrave; th&#7853;m ch&iacute; l&agrave; c&#7921;c &#273;oan, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7883; &#273;&egrave; n&eacute;n, b&#7883; m&#7845;t ng&#7911;, d&#7847;n thu m&igrave;nh, t&#7921; ti, ng&#7841;i ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&agrave; l&agrave;m n&#7843;y m&#7847;m tr&#7841;ng th&aacute;i t&#7921; ch&#7889;i b&#7887; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &ldquo;m&igrave;nh th&#7853;t v&ocirc; d&#7909;ng, m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; n&#259;ng l&#7921;c, m&igrave;nh l&agrave; k&#7867; th&#7845;t b&#7841;i, &hellip;&rdquo;, hay c&aacute;c b&#7879;nh l&yacute; v&#7873; t&acirc;m th&#7847;n.S&#7869; th&#7853;t &#273;&aacute;ng b&aacute;o &#273;&#7897;ng n&#7871;u b&#7841;n c&#7913; &#273;&#7875; nh&#7919;ng t&acirc;m l&iacute; t&#7889;i t&#259;m v&agrave; r&#7889;i b&#7901;i kia d&#7851;n d&#7855;t tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh b&#7843;n sao c&#7911;a ai &#273;&oacute;, sao ch&eacute;p l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a h&#7885; hay nghi&ecirc;m tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n l&agrave; &#273;i v&agrave;o l&#7889;i m&ograve;n tuy&#7879;t v&#7885;ng, r&#7891;i t&#7915; b&#7887;, r&#7891;i th&#7845;t b&#7841;i. Th&#7871; n&ecirc;n, h&atilde;y th&#7917; v&ugrave;ng d&#7853;y v&agrave; suy ngh&#297; theo h&#432;&#7899;ng t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c nh&eacute;.&#272;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n, &Aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a th&#7853;t ra r&#7845;t &#273;&aacute;ng tr&acirc;n tr&#7885;ng. Khi b&#7841;n g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i &aacute;p l&#7921;c n&agrave;y, &#273;i&#7873;u &#273;&oacute; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7911; &#273;&#7875; ch&#7913;ng t&#7887; b&#7841;n k&eacute;m c&#7887;i hay l&#432;&#7901;i nh&aacute;c m&agrave; n&oacute; ch&#7881; kh&#7859;ng &#273;&#7883;nh r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n &#273;ang ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n, b&#7841;n mu&#7889;n n&#7895; l&#7921;c, b&#7841;n khao kh&aacute;t th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng v&agrave; b&#7841;n c&oacute; tr&aacute;ch nhi&#7879;m v&#7899;i ch&iacute;nh m&igrave;nh. V&igrave; ch&#7881; khi con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7847;n s&#7921; &#273;i l&ecirc;n th&igrave; h&#7885; m&#7899;i lo l&#7855;ng v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng b&#432;&#7899;c l&ugrave;i c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; b&#432;&#7899;c ti&#7871;n c&#7911;a xung quanh.Ti&#7871;p theo, b&#7841;n h&atilde;y th&#7917; ngh&#297;, &ldquo;Li&#7879;u vi&#7879;c so s&aacute;nh n&#259;ng l&#7921;c c&#7911;a b&#7841;n th&acirc;n v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c c&oacute; ph&#7843;i l&agrave; s&#7921; so s&aacute;nh kh&#7853;p khi&#7877;ng?&rdquo;. Ch&uacute;ng ta kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;i&#7875;m xu&#7845;t ph&aacute;t gi&#7889;ng nhau, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; khung n&#259;ng l&#7921;c gi&#7889;ng nhau, kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; &#273;&iacute;ch &#273;&#7871;n, &#432;&#7899;c m&#417; gi&#7889;ng nhau v&#7853;y t&#7841;i sao nh&#7919;ng th&agrave;nh t&#7921;u l&#7841;i c&oacute; th&#7875; t&#432;&#417;ng &#273;&#7891;ng.&nbsp; &#272;i&#7873;u duy nh&#7845;t c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m th&#432;&#7899;c &#273;o ch&iacute;nh x&aacute;c l&agrave; s&#7921; n&#7895; l&#7921;c. V&igrave; th&#7871; h&atilde;y n&#7895; l&#7921;c v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng ng&#7915;ng n&#7895; l&#7921;c, c&#7889; g&#7855;ng v&agrave; c&#7889; g&#7855;ng tri&#7879;t &#273;&#7875; v&#7899;i m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch, &#273;am m&ecirc;. H&atilde;y ch&#7885;n cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&#7897;t con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng ri&ecirc;ng v&agrave; h&#7871;t m&igrave;nh v&#7899;i n&oacute;. M&#7885;i s&#7921; n&#7895; l&#7921;c hay c&#7889; g&#7855;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n s&#7869; &#273;&#7873;u &#273;em l&#7841;i k&#7871;t qu&#7843;, ho&#7863;c l&agrave; m&#7897;t th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng h&#7919;u h&igrave;nh, ho&#7863;c l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave;m h&agrave;nh trang cho th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng sau n&agrave;y c&#7911;a b&#7841;n v&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#417;ng nhi&ecirc;n, t&#7845;t c&#7843; ch&uacute;ng &#273;&#7873;u qu&yacute; gi&aacute; v&agrave; l&#7845;p l&aacute;nh nh&#432; c&ocirc;ng s&#7913;c b&#7841;n &#273;&atilde; b&#7887; ra v&#7853;y.Trong b&agrave;i di&#7877;n thuy&#7871;t c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh tr&ecirc;n TED v&agrave;o th&aacute;ng 12 n&#259;m 2019, Yifat Susskind &ndash; Nh&agrave; ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng v&igrave; Quy&#7873;n ph&#7909; n&#7919;, Gi&aacute;m &#273;&#7889;c &#273;i&#7873;u h&agrave;nh c&#7911;a MADRE c&oacute; chia s&#7867; v&#7873; c&acirc;u n&oacute;i c&#7911;a m&#7865; c&ocirc; &#7845;y r&#7857;ng &ldquo;Something good is going to happen, we just don&rsquo;t know what it is yet&rdquo;. &#272;&uacute;ng v&#7853;y, lu&ocirc;n c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c ngay c&#7843; khi ch&uacute;ng ta tuy&#7879;t v&#7885;ng hay ch&aacute;n n&#7843;n. H&atilde;y trang b&#7883; cho b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&#7897;t T&#432; duy ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n v&agrave; nh&igrave;n m&#7885;i con &#273;&#432;&#7901;ng d&#432;&#7899;i l&#259;ng k&iacute;nh c&#7911;a s&#7921; n&#7895; l&#7921;c. Peer pressure &#273;&aacute;ng s&#7907; v&agrave; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c hay kh&ocirc;ng - ph&#7909; thu&#7897;c v&agrave;o c&aacute;ch b&#7841;n &#273;&oacute;n nh&#7853;n v&agrave; gi&#7843;i quy&#7871;t n&oacute;.&nbsp;Ng&#7885;c &Aacute;nh&#7842;nh: Internet&nbsp;</body></html>

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