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<p><br><p><br></p><p class="ql-align-justify">Peer pressure&nbsp;l&agrave; g&igrave;? C&oacute; nh&#7919;ng c&aacute;ch n&agrave;o &#273;&#7875; v&#432;&#7907;t qua &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a? Thi&#7871;u ni&ecirc;n l&agrave; &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i r&#7845;t d&#7877; g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng Peer pressure. &#272;&oacute; l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &aacute;p l&#7921;c v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh t&#7915; b&#7841;n b&egrave;, ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n v&agrave; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng xung quanh &#273;&atilde; t&#7841;o n&ecirc;n nh&#7919;ng suy ngh&#297; ti&ecirc;u c&#7921;c cho ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a kh&ocirc;ng h&#7859;n l&agrave; x&#7845;u, &#273;&oacute; c&ograve;n l&agrave; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c &#273;&#7875; b&#7841;n quy&#7871;t t&acirc;m thay &#273;&#7893;i th&#7921;c tr&#7841;ng hi&#7879;n t&#7841;i. Trong b&agrave;i vi&#7871;t n&agrave;y, h&atilde;y c&ugrave;ng&nbsp;Youth+&nbsp;t&igrave;m hi&#7875;u&nbsp;Peer pressure&nbsp;l&agrave; g&igrave; v&agrave; c&aacute;ch v&#432;&#7907;t qua &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a nhanh ch&oacute;ng nh&#7845;t nh&eacute;.</p><h2 class="ql-align-justify">Peer pressure l&agrave; g&igrave;?&nbsp;</h2><p class="ql-align-justify">Peer pressure l&agrave; thu&#7853;t ng&#7919; chuy&ecirc;n ng&agrave;nh trong gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c, t&acirc;m l&yacute; h&#7885;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c hi&#7875;u l&agrave; &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a. &#272;&acirc;y c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; &aacute;p l&#7921;c t&#7915; &yacute; ki&#7871;n, h&agrave;nh vi, t&aacute;c phong ho&#7863;c gi&aacute; tr&#7883; con ng&#432;&#7901;i c&#7911;a m&#7897;t c&aacute; nh&acirc;n ho&#7863;c t&#7853;p th&#7875; t&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p l&ecirc;n t&#432; t&#432;&#7903;ng c&#7911;a m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Peer pressure&nbsp;l&agrave; x&#7843;y ra r&#7845;t ph&#7893; bi&#7871;n v&#7899;i h&#7847;u h&#7871;t ch&uacute;ng ta ngay khi m&#7899;i b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u &#273;i h&#7885;c cho t&#7899;i l&uacute;c gi&agrave; &#273;i. Khi c&ograve;n nh&#7887;, ch&uacute;ng ta h&#7885;c &#7903; tr&#432;&#7901;ng, l&#7899;n l&ecirc;n &#273;i l&agrave;m &#7903; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng c&ocirc;ng s&#7903;, &aacute;p l&#7921;c v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh t&#7915; gia &#273;&igrave;nh, cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng lu&ocirc;n khi&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&#7879;t m&#7887;i, stress. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y ch&#7881; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n khi &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&ocirc;ng trang l&#7913;a t&#7891;n t&#7841;i trong b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7841;n m&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;o c&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c.</p><p class="ql-align-justify">M&#7863;c d&ugrave; s&#7889; l&#432;&#7907;ng tr&#7867; v&#7883; th&agrave;nh ni&ecirc;n b&#7883;&nbsp;Peer pressure&nbsp;r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u, nh&#432;ng kh&ocirc;ng c&oacute; ngh&#297;a ng&#432;&#7901;i l&#7899;n &#273;&#432;&#7907;c &ldquo;mi&#7877;n nhi&#7877;m&rdquo;. N&oacute; c&#361;ng v&#7851;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t &aacute;p l&#7921;c v&ocirc; h&igrave;nh gi&#7919;a &#273;&#7891;ng nghi&#7879;p, b&#7841;n b&egrave; c&ugrave;ng trang l&#7913;a.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Theo m&#7897;t nghi&ecirc;n c&#7913;u, c&#7913; 10 ng&#432;&#7901;i th&igrave; c&oacute; t&#7899;i 6 - 7 ng&#432;&#7901;i b&#7883; &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t l&agrave; trong m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c t&#7853;p v&agrave; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c. Nh&#432; v&#7853;y, c&oacute; th&#7875; n&oacute;i r&#7857;ng &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a c&oacute; th&#7875; xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n &#7903; b&#7845;t c&#7913; ng&#432;&#7901;i n&agrave;o v&agrave; b&#7845;t c&#7913; &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i n&agrave;o.&nbsp;</p><h2 class="ql-align-justify">Nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n xu&#7845;t hi&#7879;n Peer pressure?</h2><p class="ql-align-justify">C&oacute; kh&aacute; nhi&#7873;u nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n d&#7851;n t&#7899;i ch&uacute;ng ta b&#7883; &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a t&#7915; c&#7843; b&ecirc;n trong v&agrave; b&ecirc;n ngo&agrave;i. D&#432;&#7899;i &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; m&#7897;t s&#7889; nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n &#273;i&#7875;n h&igrave;nh.</p><h3 class="ql-align-justify"><em>1. T&#432; duy v&agrave; nh&acirc;n c&aacute;ch ch&#432;a ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh</em></h3><p class="ql-align-justify">Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i trong &#273;&#7897; tu&#7893;i v&#7883; th&agrave;nh ni&ecirc;n khi t&#432; duy v&agrave; nh&acirc;n c&aacute;ch ch&#432;a ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n &#7893;n &#273;&#7883;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng d&#7877; b&#7883; t&aacute;c &#273;&#7897;ng b&#7903;i b&#7841;n b&egrave; v&agrave; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng xung quanh.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Ch&#7855;c h&#7859;n r&#7857;ng, ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&atilde; &iacute;t nh&#7845;t 1 l&#7847;n ngh&#297; t&#7899;i m&#7897;t vi&#7879;c &ldquo;&#273;i&ecirc;n r&#7891;&rdquo; n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; nh&#432; b&#7887; nh&agrave; &#273;i, tr&#7889;n h&#7885;c, c&ocirc; l&#7853;p m&#7897;t b&#7841;n n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute; m&agrave; m&igrave;nh gh&eacute;t,... Nguy&ecirc;n nh&acirc;n c&oacute; th&#7875; do ch&#432;a x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh &#273;&#432;&#7907;c gi&aacute; tr&#7883; c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n, ch&#432;a suy ngh&#297; t&#7899;i h&#7853;u qu&#7843; ho&#7863;c c&oacute; t&#7847;m nh&igrave;n h&#7841;n h&#7865;p v&#7873; m&#7897;t m&#7889;i quan h&#7879; xung quanh.</p><h3 class="ql-align-justify"><em>2. Khao kh&aacute;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c h&ograve;a nh&#7853;p&nbsp;</em></h3><p class="ql-align-justify">&#272;&oacute; c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t l&yacute; do khi&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n &ldquo;t&#7921; vi&#7879;n&rdquo; c&#7899; &#273;&#7875; t&#7841;o ra &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a. Trong m&#7897;t tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7907;p n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, b&#7841;n b&#7883; t&#7915; ch&#7889;i b&#7903;i nh&oacute;m b&#7841;n ho&#7863;c &#273;&#7891;ng l&#7841;i th&igrave; kh&#7843; n&#259;ng t&#7921; &ldquo;ch&#7889;ng ch&#7885;i&rdquo; s&#7869; r&#7845;t kh&#7855;c nghi&#7879;t. &#272;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c ch&#7913;ng minh trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n h&agrave;ng tri&#7879;u n&#259;m c&#7911;a con ng&#432;&#7901;i.</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Ch&iacute;nh b&#7843;n n&#259;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c mong mu&#7889;n h&ograve;a nh&#7853;p v&#7899;i c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng s&#7869; gi&uacute;p ch&uacute;ng ta t&#7921; bi&#7871;t &#273;i&#7873;u ch&#7881;nh t&#432; duy, th&aacute;i &#273;&#7897; v&agrave; h&agrave;nh vi ph&ugrave; h&#7907;p v&#7899;i nh&oacute;m m&agrave; m&igrave;nh mong mu&#7889;n tham gia.&nbsp;</p><h3 class="ql-align-justify"><em>3. Chu&#7849;n m&#7921;c c&#7911;a x&atilde; h&#7897;i</em></h3><p class="ql-align-justify">&#7902; m&#7895;i m&#7897;t th&#7901;i k&#7923; v&agrave; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng kh&aacute;c nhau, ng&#432;&#7901;i ta s&#7869; c&oacute; m&#7897;t quy chu&#7849;n ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n kh&aacute;c bi&#7879;t. Suy ngh&#297;, t&#432; duy v&agrave; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n ph&#7843;i th&#7921;c s&#7921; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i trong x&atilde; h&#7897;i ch&#7845;p nh&#7853;n, cho &#273;&oacute; l&agrave; &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n. Nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&#7875; hi&#7879;n r&otilde; trong vi&#7879;c ph&aacute;t bi&#7875;u &yacute; ki&#7871;n c&aacute; nh&acirc;n, &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng t&#7915; c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng, x&atilde; h&#7897;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch tr&#7921;c ti&#7871;p/gi&aacute;n ti&#7871;p.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">C&oacute; th&#7875; hi&#7875;u &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; trong m&#7897;t c&ocirc;ng ty n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;, vi&#7879;c overtime - l&agrave;m th&ecirc;m gi&#7901; l&agrave; &ldquo;quy t&#7855;c ng&#7847;m&rdquo; m&agrave; ai c&#361;ng ph&#7843;i bi&#7871;t. V&agrave; ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n l&agrave; ch&#7859;ng ai mu&#7889;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n &ldquo;l&#7841;c qu&#7867;&rdquo; khi b&#7883; s&#7871;p &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; l&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t c&#7889;ng hi&#7871;n v&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng n&#7895; l&#7921;c.</p><h3 class="ql-align-justify"><em>4. Ch&#7911; ngh&#297;a t&#7853;p th&#7875;</em></h3><p class="ql-align-justify">V&#259;n h&oacute;a ng&#432;&#7901;i ch&acirc;u &Aacute; r&#7845;t coi tr&#7885;ng ch&#7911; ngh&#297;a t&#7853;p th&#7875; h&#417;n l&agrave; v&#259;n h&oacute;a ch&acirc;u &Acirc;u. Nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7889;ng v&agrave; &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nu&ocirc;i d&#7841;y trong v&#259;n h&oacute;a ph&#432;&#417;ng &#272;&ocirc;ng th&#432;&#7901;ng d&#7877; h&igrave;nh th&agrave;nh vi&#7879;c so s&aacute;nh x&atilde; h&#7897;i. Vi&#7879;c n&agrave;y c&#361;ng r&#7845;t d&#7877; hi&#7875;u khi h&#7885; mu&#7889;n x&aacute;c &#273;&#7883;nh b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&#7873; m&#7863;t quan h&#7879; hay &#273;&aacute;nh gi&aacute; v&#7883; tr&iacute; c&#7911;a m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Ch&#7911; ngh&#297;a t&#7853;p th&#7875; th&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7873; cao th&#7913; b&#7853;c, v&#7883; tr&iacute;, &#273;i&#7875;m s&#7889;,... v&ocirc; t&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; khi&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n b&#7883;&nbsp;Peer pressure. B&#7843;n th&acirc;n c&agrave;ng &aacute;p l&#7921;c khi so s&aacute;nh v&#7899;i b&#7841;n b&egrave;, ng&#432;&#7901;i th&acirc;n ho&#7863;c &#273;&#417;n gi&#7843;n l&agrave; nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i quen bi&#7871;t &#7903; m&#7897;t n&#417;i n&agrave;o &#273;&oacute;. Khi c&ograve;n nh&#7887;, c&aacute;i c&#7909;m t&#7915; &ldquo;con nh&agrave; ng&#432;&#7901;i ta&rdquo; lu&ocirc;n &aacute;m &#7843;nh trong t&#432; duy c&#7911;a m&#7895;i c&ocirc; c&#7853;u h&#7885;c sinh. &#272;&#7845;y c&#361;ng l&agrave; h&igrave;nh &#7843;nh r&otilde; n&eacute;t trong &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a.&nbsp;</p><h3 class="ql-align-justify"><em>5. M&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i</em></h3><p class="ql-align-justify">M&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i l&agrave; &ldquo;con dao hai l&#432;&#7905;i&rdquo; khi n&oacute; v&#7915;a g&oacute;p ph&#7847;n cung c&#7845;p th&ocirc;ng tin, nh&#432;ng c&#361;ng khu&#7871;ch &#273;&#7841;i &aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a.&nbsp;Peer pressure&nbsp;c&agrave;ng tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n nghi&ecirc;m tr&#7885;ng h&#417;n khi nh&igrave;n th&#7845;y ng&#432;&#7901;i kh&aacute;c th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng h&#417;n, c&oacute; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng sung t&uacute;c h&#417;n,... cao h&#417;n 2,7 l&#7847;n so v&#7899;i ng&#432;&#7901;i b&igrave;nh th&#432;&#7901;ng.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">Ch&iacute;nh v&igrave; th&#7871;, h&atilde;y bi&#7871;t s&#7917; d&#7909;ng m&#7841;ng x&atilde; h&#7897;i m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch h&#7907;p l&yacute;, &#273;&uacute;ng l&uacute;c, &#273;&uacute;ng ch&#7895; &#273;&#7875; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n ph&aacute;t tri&#7875;n theo h&#432;&#7899;ng t&iacute;ch c&#7921;c nh&#7845;t.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-align-justify">M&#7863;c d&ugrave; v&#7853;y Peer pressure c&#361;ng kh&ocirc;ng th&#7921;c s&#7921; x&#7845;u nh&#432; nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i ngh&#297;. &Aacute;p l&#7921;c &#273;&#7891;ng trang l&#7913;a c&#361;ng l&agrave; &#273;&#7897;ng l&#7921;c tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i &#273;&#7875; th&uacute;c &#273;&#7849;y b&#7841;n tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n ho&agrave;n thi&#7879;n h&#417;n. Ch&uacute;ng ta c&oacute; th&#7875; khai th&aacute;c nh&#7919;ng m&#7863;t t&#7889;t, ti&#7871;p x&uacute;c v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&#432;&#7901;i t&#7889;t th&igrave; ch&uacute;ng ta s&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng t&#432; duy v&agrave; h&agrave;nh &#273;&#7897;ng t&#432;&#417;ng t&#7921;.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p></p>


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