Sau khi v&#7915;a t&#7889;t nghi&#7879;p &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, t&ocirc;i &#273;&atilde; d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian &#273;&#7875; ng&#7851;m ngh&#297; v&#7873; qu&atilde;ng th&#7901;i gian h&#7891;i c&ograve;n l&agrave; sinh vi&ecirc;n c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh. T&ocirc;i c&#361;ng d&agrave;nh th&#7901;i gian suy ngh&#297; v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c nh&#7869; ra t&ocirc;i n&ecirc;n l&agrave;m kh&aacute;c &#273;i. Khi nh&igrave;n l&#7841;i kho&#7843;ng th&#7901;i gian v&#7915;a &yacute; ngh&#297;a v&#7915;a c&oacute; ch&uacute;t h&#7889;i ti&#7871;c n&agrave;y, t&ocirc;i ch&#7907;t nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng gi&aacute; nh&#432; c&oacute; ai n&oacute;i cho t&ocirc;i bi&#7871;t nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u n&agrave;y l&uacute;c &#273;&oacute;. D&#432;&#7899;i &#273;&acirc;y l&agrave; 10 l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n c&#7911;a t&ocirc;i d&agrave;nh cho c&aacute;c b&#7841;n t&acirc;n sinh vi&ecirc;n s&#7855;p b&#432;&#7899;c ch&acirc;n v&agrave;o c&aacute;nh c&#7917;a &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c.1. Ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng t&#7841;o d&#7921;ng quan h&#7879; x&atilde; h&#7897;i&#272;&#7889;i v&#7899;i nhi&#7873;u ng&#432;&#7901;i, c&oacute; l&#7869; v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; giao ti&#7871;p, k&#7871;t b&#7841;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t trong nh&#7919;ng &#273;i&#7873;u kh&oacute; kh&#259;n nh&#7845;t h&#7885; ph&#7843;i &#273;&#7889;i m&#7863;t khi tr&#7903; th&agrave;nh sinh vi&ecirc;n. B&#7841;n s&#7869; k&#7871;t &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&ecirc;m b&#7841;n m&#7899;i ch&#7913;? B&#7841;n b&egrave; v&agrave; b&#7841;n c&ugrave;ng ph&ograve;ng s&#7869; th&iacute;ch b&#7841;n ch&#7913;? Ch&#7855;c h&#7859;n c&acirc;u tr&#7843; l&#7901;i cho c&#7843; 2 c&acirc;u h&#7887;i tr&ecirc;n &#273;&#7873;u l&agrave; &ldquo;C&oacute;&rdquo;, nh&#432;ng b&#7841;n s&#7869; ch&#7859;ng m&#7845;t g&igrave; khi l&agrave; m&#7897;t ng&#432;&#7901;i h&ograve;a &#273;&#7891;ng. &#272;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t, n&#7871;u b&#7841;n l&agrave; m&#7897;t sinh vi&ecirc;n h&#432;&#7899;ng n&#7897;i v&agrave; &#273;&#7897;c l&#7853;p. H&atilde;y tham gia c&aacute;c s&#7921; ki&#7879;n, g&#7863;p g&#7905; b&#7841;n b&egrave;, ch&#7911; &#273;&#7897;ng b&#7855;t chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i c&aacute;c b&#7841;n c&ugrave;ng l&#7899;p, v&agrave; &#273;&#7915;ng ng&#7841;i n&oacute;i &ldquo;c&oacute;&rdquo; khi c&#417; h&#7897;i &#273;&#7871;n.2. T&#7853;n d&#7909;ng t&#7889;i &#273;a khu&ocirc;n vi&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;cNh&#7855;c &#273;&#7871;n khu&ocirc;n vi&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c, m&#7897;t sai l&#7847;m m&agrave; t&ocirc;i m&#7855;c ph&#7843;i trong nh&#7919;ng ng&agrave;y &#273;&#7847;u h&#7885;c &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c l&agrave; kh&ocirc;ng kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; t&#7917; t&#7871; to&agrave;n b&#7897; khu&ocirc;n vi&ecirc;n trong tr&#432;&#7901;ng. M&atilde;i sau n&agrave;y t&ocirc;i m&#7899;i nh&#7853;n ra m&igrave;nh &#273;&atilde; b&#7887; l&#7905; r&#7845;t nhi&#7873;u th&#7913;. H&#7847;u h&#7871;t khu&ocirc;n vi&ecirc;n c&aacute;c tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c trang b&#7883; &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; c&#417; s&#7903; v&#7853;t ch&#7845;t hi&#7879;n &#273;&#7841;i v&agrave; ngu&#7891;n t&agrave;i nguy&ecirc;n tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i. T&#7845;t c&#7843; &#273;&#7873;u &#273;&#432;&#7907;c s&#7917; d&#7909;ng v&agrave;o m&#7909;c &#273;&iacute;ch gi&#7843;i tr&iacute; v&agrave; g&oacute;p ph&#7847;n cung c&#7845;p cho sinh vi&ecirc;n m&#7897;t m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c t&#7853;p ti&ecirc;n ti&#7871;n. S&#7869; th&#7853;t l&agrave; l&atilde;ng ph&iacute; n&#7871;u b&#7841;n kh&ocirc;ng bi&#7871;t t&#7853;n d&#7909;ng n&oacute;. V&#7853;y c&ograve;n ch&#7847;n ch&#7915; g&igrave; n&#7919;a? H&atilde;y kh&aacute;m ph&aacute; ngay th&ocirc;i!3. Tham d&#7921; &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; c&aacute;c bu&#7893;i h&#7885;cT&#7845;t c&#7843; ch&uacute;ng ta &#273;&#7873;u t&#7915;ng nghe &#273;&acirc;u &#273;&oacute; nh&#7919;ng &#273;&#7883;nh ki&#7871;n v&#7873; sinh vi&ecirc;n, v&#7873; t&igrave;nh tr&#7841;ng &ldquo;ng&#7841;i &#273;&#7871;n l&#7899;p&rdquo; (kh&ocirc;ng n&ecirc;n b&agrave;n &#273;&#7871;n nh&#7919;ng phi v&#7909; kh&ocirc;ng &#273;&#7871;n l&#7899;p tr&#432;&#7899;c 9 gi&#7901; s&aacute;ng th&igrave; h&#417;n). Tuy nhi&ecirc;n, &#273;i&#7873;u quan tr&#7885;ng l&agrave; &#273;&#7843;m b&#7843;o b&#7841;n tham d&#7921; c&aacute;c ti&#7871;t h&#7885;c v&agrave; c&aacute;c h&#7897;i th&#7843;o &#273;&#7847;y &#273;&#7911; nh&#7845;t c&oacute; th&#7875; &#273;&#7875; t&#7853;n d&#7909;ng t&#7889;i &#273;a n&#7873;n gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c m&agrave; b&#7841;n &#273;ang ph&#7843;i chi tr&#7843;. C&agrave;ng t&#7841;o l&#7853;p &#273;&#432;&#7907;c th&oacute;i quen n&agrave;y s&#7899;m bao nhi&ecirc;u th&igrave; c&agrave;ng c&oacute; l&#7907;i cho b&#7841;n &#7903; n&#259;m cu&#7889;i.4. &#272;&#7915;ng v&#7897;i t&#7915; b&#7887;&nbsp;M&#7897;t &#273;i&#7873;u m&agrave; nhi&#7873;u t&acirc;n sinh vi&ecirc;n c&oacute; th&#7875; b&#7883; h&#7845;p d&#7851;n su&#7889;t nh&#7919;ng th&aacute;ng &#273;&#7847;u ti&ecirc;n &#7903; &#272;&#7841;i h&#7885;c l&agrave; mong mu&#7889;n t&#7915; b&#7887;. L&#7889;i s&#7889;ng thay &#273;&#7893;i, nhi&#7873;u l&uacute;c kh&#7889;i l&#432;&#7907;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c ch&#7891;ng ch&#7845;t&nbsp; v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng lo l&#7855;ng v&#7873; t&#432;&#417;ng lai c&#361;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; g&oacute;p ph&#7847;n d&#7851;n &#273;&#7871;n kh&aacute;t khao ng&#7915;ng n&#7895; l&#7921;c hay c&ograve;n g&#7885;i l&agrave; t&#7915; b&#7887;. Nh&#432;ng h&atilde;y ti&#7871;p t&#7909;c c&#7889; g&#7855;ng v&agrave; c&acirc;n nh&#7855;c m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch k&#297; c&agrave;ng t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng l&#7921;a ch&#7885;n c&#7911;a b&#7841;n tr&#432;&#7899;c khi &#273;&#432;a ra quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh quan tr&#7885;ng n&agrave;y. M&#7885;i vi&#7879;c r&#7891;i s&#7869; &#7893;n th&ocirc;i!5. Tham gia v&agrave;o c&aacute;c h&#7897;i nh&oacute;m&nbsp;Cho d&ugrave; cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c ch&#7911; y&#7871;u xoay&nbsp; quanh vi&#7879;c h&#7885;c h&agrave;nh nh&#432;ng nh&#7919;ng h&#7897;i nh&oacute;m v&agrave; c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng c&#361;ng l&agrave; m&#7897;t c&#417; h&#7897;i tuy&#7879;t v&#7901;i &#273;&#7875; h&ograve;a nh&#7853;p. Tham gia nhi&#7873;u ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng ngo&#7841;i kh&oacute;a nghe c&oacute; v&#7867; qu&aacute; nhi&#7873;u vi&#7879;c, nh&#432;ng vi&#7879;c tham gia v&agrave;o c&aacute;c c&#7897;ng &#273;&#7891;ng c&oacute; th&#7875; mang l&#7841;i nhi&#7873;u l&#7907;i &iacute;ch. Ho&#7841;t &#273;&#7897;ng &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; m&#7903; r&#7897;ng v&ograve;ng tr&ograve;n b&#7841;n b&egrave;, cho b&#7841;n nh&#7919;ng k&#7929; n&#259;ng ho&agrave;n to&agrave;n m&#7899;i v&agrave; th&#7853;m ch&iacute; gi&uacute;p n&acirc;ng cao kh&#7843; n&#259;ng &#273;&#432;&#7907;c tuy&#7875;n d&#7909;ng c&#7911;a b&#7841;n. H&atilde;y c&#7913; th&#7917; m&#7897;t th&#7913; g&igrave; &#273;&oacute; m&#7899;i m&#7867;, b&#7841;n s&#7869; kh&ocirc;ng bao gi&#7901; bi&#7871;t n&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; d&#7851;n b&#7841;n t&#7899;i &#273;&acirc;u &#273;&acirc;u.6. L&ecirc;n k&#7871; ho&#7841;ch cho t&#432;&#417;ng lai&nbsp;Khi ho&agrave;n th&agrave;nh h&#7871;t c&aacute;c b&agrave;i t&#7853;p v&agrave; t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng k&igrave; h&#7885;c s&#7855;p k&#7871;t th&uacute;c, vi&#7879;c nh&#7853;n ra r&#7857;ng v&#7851;n c&ograve;n m&#7897;t cu&#7897;c s&#7889;ng sau &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c &#273;ang ch&#7901; &#273;&#7907;i c&oacute; th&#7875; l&agrave; m&#7897;t tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m kh&aacute; &#273;&aacute;ng s&#7907;. S&#7889;ng m&#7897;t m&igrave;nh, t&#7921; quy&#7871;t &#273;&#7883;nh s&#7921; nghi&#7879;p c&#7911;a b&#7843;n th&acirc;n v&agrave; t&igrave;m vi&#7879;c sau khi t&#7889;t nghi&#7879;p l&agrave; t&#7845;t c&#7843; nh&#7919;ng vi&#7879;c th&#7853;t s&#7921; d&#7877; g&acirc;y n&#7843;n ch&iacute; hay s&#7907; h&atilde;i. B&#7903;i v&#7853;y &#273;&#7875; chu&#7849;n b&#7883; b&#7843;n th&acirc;n m&#7897;t c&aacute;ch t&#7889;t nh&#7845;t &#7903; ch&#7863;ng cu&#7889;i c&#7911;a &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, b&#7841;n n&ecirc;n b&#7855;t &#273;&#7847;u suy ngh&#297; v&#7873; t&#432;&#417;ng lai ngay t&#7915; ban &#273;&#7847;u.H&atilde;y n&oacute;i chuy&#7879;n v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng nh&agrave; t&#432; v&#7845;n h&#432;&#7899;ng nghi&#7879;p, tr&#7907; gi&#7843;ng tr&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng v&agrave; b&#7841;n b&egrave;. H&atilde;y c&#7889; g&#7855;ng nh&#7853;n nhi&#7873;u l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n nh&#7845;t c&oacute; th&#7875;!7. Nh&#7853;n ph&#7843;n h&#7891;iNh&#7853;n l&#7901;i ph&ecirc; b&igrave;nh v&#7873; c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c c&#7911;a m&igrave;nh kh&ocirc;ng ph&#7843;i l&uacute;c n&agrave;o c&#361;ng l&agrave;&nbsp; tr&#7843;i nghi&#7879;m th&iacute;ch th&uacute; cho l&#7855;m, &#273;&#7863;c bi&#7879;t n&#7871;u b&#7841;n th&#432;&#7901;ng hay &#273;&#7875; b&#7909;ng m&#7885;i th&#7913;. Nh&#432;ng nh&#7919;ng nh&#7853;n x&eacute;t &#273;&ocirc;i l&uacute;c l&#7841;i l&agrave; ph&#432;&#417;ng ti&#7879;n &#273;&#7875; &#273;i &#273;&#7871;n th&agrave;nh c&ocirc;ng. Cho d&ugrave; kh&#7889;i l&#432;&#7907;ng c&ocirc;ng vi&#7879;c trong qu&aacute; tr&igrave;nh h&#7885;c &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c s&#7869; thi&ecirc;n v&#7873; l&agrave;m vi&#7879;c c&aacute; nh&acirc;n h&#417;n so v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&agrave;y h&#7885;c &#7903; c&#7845;p ba c&#7911;a b&#7841;n, vi&#7879;c nh&#7853;n s&#7921; gi&uacute;p &#273;&#7905; v&agrave; nh&#7919;ng &yacute; ki&#7871;n kh&aacute;c nhau t&#7915; gi&aacute;o vi&ecirc;n th&#7853;t s&#7921; l&agrave; th&#7913; m&agrave; m&#7895;i h&#7885;c sinh n&ecirc;n t&igrave;m ki&#7871;m nhi&#7873;u nh&#7845;t c&oacute; th&#7875;. N&#7871;u b&#7841;n bi&#7871;t c&#7847;n c&#7843;i thi&#7879;n &#273;i&#7873;u g&igrave; t&#7915; s&#7899;m, vi&#7879;c &#273;&oacute; c&oacute; th&#7875; gi&uacute;p &iacute;ch cho b&#7841;n khi vi&#7871;t lu&#7853;n v&#259;n.8. N&ecirc;u &yacute; ki&#7871;nV&#7873; vi&#7879;c tr&#7903; n&ecirc;n quy&#7871;t &#273;o&aacute;n h&#417;n &#7903; m&ocirc;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c, m&#7897;t v&#7845;n &#273;&#7873; &#273;i k&egrave;m ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; &#273;&#7915;ng e s&#7907; &#273;&#432;a ra &yacute; ki&#7871;n b&#7843;n th&acirc;n. Nh&#432; &#273;&atilde; &#273;&#7873; c&#7853;p &#7903; tr&ecirc;n, gi&aacute;o d&#7909;c b&#7853;c cao h&#417;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; r&#7845;t kh&aacute;c so v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng ng&agrave;y b&#7841;n c&ograve;n tr&ecirc;n tr&#432;&#7901;ng. N&#7871;u c&oacute; g&igrave; l&agrave;m b&#7841;n c&#7843;m th&#7845;y kh&ocirc;ng th&iacute;ch h&#7907;p, d&ugrave; l&agrave; vi&#7879;c cho &#273;i&#7875;m b&#7845;t c&ocirc;ng hay vi&#7879;c gi&#7843;ng d&#7841;y c&ograve;n thi&#7871;u s&oacute;t, b&#7841;n n&ecirc;n l&ecirc;n ti&#7871;ng. H&#7897;i nh&oacute;m c&#7911;a b&#7841;n s&#7869; cung c&#7845;p c&aacute;ch th&#7913;c li&ecirc;n l&#7841;c, v&#7853;y n&ecirc;n &#273;&#7915;ng c&#7843;m th&#7845;y r&#7857;ng m&igrave;nh ph&#7843;i gi&#7919; im l&#7863;ng.9. &#272;&#7875; &yacute; chi ti&ecirc;uC&oacute; l&#7869; m&#7897;t trong nh&#7919;ng l&#7901;i khuy&ecirc;n r&otilde; r&agrave;ng h&#417;n c&#7843; &#273;&#7889;i v&#7899;i m&#7895;i sinh vi&ecirc;n m&#7899;i ch&iacute;nh l&agrave; qu&#7843;n l&iacute; ti&#7873;n b&#7841;c &#273;&uacute;ng &#273;&#7855;n. V&acirc;ng, sinh vi&ecirc;n &#273;&ocirc;i l&uacute;c c&#7843;m th&#7845;y th&iacute;ch th&uacute; v&#7899;i c&aacute;i c&#7843;m gi&aacute;c &#273;&#432;&#7907;c nh&#7853;n m&#7897;t kho&#7843;n ph&iacute; &#273;&#7875; chi tr&#7843; nh&#7919;ng d&#7883;ch v&#7909; n&#417;i tr&#432;&#7901;ng h&#7885;c t&#7915; b&#7889; m&#7865;. Nh&#432;ng m&oacute;n ti&#7873;n &#273;&oacute; s&#7869; nhanh ch&oacute;ng bi&#7871;n m&#7845;t, v&agrave; n&#7871;u khinh su&#7845;t, b&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; v&#432;&#7899;ng v&agrave;o nh&#7919;ng r&#7855;c r&#7889;i nghi&ecirc;m tr&#7885;ng. B&#7841;n c&oacute; th&#7875; ti&#7871;t ki&#7879;m b&#7857;ng c&aacute;ch gi&#7899;i h&#7841;n ch&#7881; mua nh&#7919;ng m&oacute;n th&#7921;c s&#7921; c&#7847;n thi&#7871;t, ho&#7863;c ch&#7885;n kh&ocirc;ng tham gia nh&#7919;ng chuy&#7871;n &#273;i ch&#417;i &#273;&ecirc;m. H&atilde;y ch&#7855;c ch&#7855;n r&#7857;ng b&#7841;n lu&ocirc;n &#273;&#7875; t&acirc;m t&#7899;i con s&#7889; trong t&agrave;i kho&#7843;n &#273;&#7875; kh&ocirc;ng g&#7863;p ph&#7843;i t&igrave;nh hu&#7889;ng ng&#7863;t ngh&egrave;o!10. T&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng h&#7871;t m&igrave;nhD&ugrave; ph&#7847;n l&#7899;n m&#7885;i ng&#432;&#7901;i s&#7869; khuy&ecirc;n b&#7841;n l&agrave;m m&#7897;t sinh vi&ecirc;n nghi&ecirc;m t&uacute;c ch&#7881; ch&#259;m ch&#259;m v&agrave;o vi&#7879;c h&#7885;c, nh&#432;ng h&atilde;y nh&#7899; ch&#417;i vui v&#7867; n&#7919;a nh&eacute;. S&#7869; c&oacute; nh&#7919;ng l&uacute;c b&#7841;n h&eacute;o hon v&#7899;i nh&#7919;ng n&#7895;i lo v&#7873; deadline v&agrave; s&#7907; s&#7879;t v&#7873; nh&#7919;ng ch&ocirc;ng gai &#273;ang ch&#7901; &#7903; t&#432;&#417;ng lai ph&iacute;a tr&#432;&#7899;c. Nh&#432;ng &#273;&#7841;i h&#7885;c c&ograve;n l&agrave; nhi&#7873;u h&#417;n th&#7871; n&#7919;a, n&oacute; c&ograve;n l&agrave; c&aacute;c bu&#7893;i giao l&#432;u, bu&#7893;i &#273;i ch&#417;i &#273;&ecirc;m v&agrave; k&#7871;t th&ecirc;m b&#7841;n m&#7899;i. H&atilde;y t&#7853;n h&#432;&#7903;ng s&#7921; t&#7921; do khi l&agrave; m&#7897;t sinh vi&ecirc;n!

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